Saturday, May 31, 2008

Reactions

I told my kids that I am pregnant today, I got beter reactions out of them than I thought I would. We had just finnished lunch and Jason had taken the boys to the truck, Madalyn and I staied to pay the check and I was asking her what she thought of April (my sister) being pregnant too. She was very umm ok I guess, wile I tried to push it a little she kept going back to her sun burn, LOL. So on the way back I said well I am glad you are happy april is having another baby, because so are we. She stopped and said REALLY IS IT A GIRL!! LOL of course we won't know until the baby is born, silly girl, she was hoping all the way to the truck and even wanted to tell the boys! I let her, she then asked when the baby would be here, umm before christmas, after school starts was my answer, the best one I could really give at this point, she understands some babies, like her brothers are born early and sick and might have to stay at the hospital for a wile.
One qustion she asked I was not surpised by and is the reason I waited until almost 12 weeks to tell them, she asked if we knew if the baby was alive or if it was going to die. Wile some may think a 9 year old should not ask this question, she has good reason, My sister (who is pregnant too) lost a baby before Christmas last year, Madalyn already knew she was pregnant so we told her "aunt April's baby died" what else could I have said. Then Last month my SIL lost a baby, she had told Madalyn and the boys already so I had to tell Madalyn her baby died too. She was upset about all of this and I didn't want to have to tell her mommy's baby didn't make it either. I don;t want her to think babies die all the time ya know. So I told her every thing was ok and I am 3 months and at this point the doctors think the baby will be just fine. and that is the truth.
So as good as can be expected, My Grandmother knows and I am going to her home for her birthday tomorrow it will be the 1st time I have seen her since she knows. I don't think she will say any thing bad, My dad's mom I don't know about, I am going to tell her soon or let my dad tell her, LOL all she said with all the others is ya I knew that already. Haha So I guess we shall see!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

I am pregnant!!

OK Well,I think the title says it all!!
I am 10 weeks 3days Pregnant due, December 15th, 2008, I know there are question, So lets see.

1. No it was not planned, are you crazy, we have 4 kids already.
2. I do not know when we will have this baby, yes I am due in december, no my Doctor doesn't think I will make it to december.
3. My OB dose think I will make it to at least 30 weeks, I want 35 weeks.
4. I am not seeing the dr. any more than "normal" right now. Just once a month until 24 weeks, then once a week until I deliver.
5. I have had 2 ultrasounds and there is just one baby.
6. No we are not finding out the sex of our baby, No we don't want to know, and No you can not go with us to the ultrasound so that you can know. It will be a suprise!!
7. Yes I am scarred thanks for reminding me!

PS, We don;t want any advice just prayers, thanks!